Musings from the Therapist's Chair

Crazy, but not Rich: Some Thoughts on Crazy Rich Asians

I refused to watch the movie when it splashed onto silver screens in 2018.  My disdain was met with dismissal by friends and family, who thought I took too seriously a movie that was nothing more than...

On Work and Retirement

No Work, No Food Hyakujo, the Chinese Zen master, used to labor with his pupils even at the age of eighty, trimming the gardens, cleaning the grounds, and pruning the trees. The pupils felt sorry to...

On Aging

I turn 44 on Friday. I have enough years behind me to see the wheeling seasons, and those turns have forged an emerging perspective on aging.  It’s no small matter to be able to look behind and locate...

A Pandemic of Affluenza

When I am irked by the excesses of mainstream culture and the pernicious beliefs that corrupt shared life, my wife likes to say in jest: why don’t you get back on your mountain so you can look down on...

On Faith

There may come a time when, Broken by false promises, Worn thin by stoked passions, You step through the threshold and feel yourself larger than what those walls can hold Leaving behind the raucous...

An Injury and a Trip to the Hospital

Disclaimer: This entry contains graphic descriptions of a physical Injury. Reader discretion is advised On 27 April, 2021, I lost part of my right index finger inside my dog’s clenching jaws.  It was...

Spring Subsides, Summer Nears

 I went out today for groceries.  Already I’ve noticed more cars on the road.  Construction projects clog the streets. There is a small pile up just a few blocks from my apartment.  It seems that the...

To Stay or Go

It’s been more than six months since my last entry.  The hiatus came as a result of some personal difficulties I experienced at the end of May and throughout the summer.  Then, a busy Fall semester...

On Anti-Asian Racism. . .

Anti-Asian racism and hate-crime is on the rise.  Across North America and Europe, there are reports of racially-motivated assault.  These reports make for grievous reading, and those who scans this...